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How would you have handled someone who came to you with these questions?
This talk didn’t last very long. I was asked this question by a coworker of mine when I was in the break room reading & journaling in my Bible. Basically like this, sparing other details.
“So when will your people the church approve of the LGBTQ people & accept their lifestyles?”

I replied “why? Are you in that community?”
They answered “yes”
I answered straight on “we won’t”

They asked “why not?”
I answered “because it’s against God”.

They said “there are homosexual Christians out there you know”.

I replied “that’s not how it works. Jesus said in Luke 16:15 ‘what people hold in high esteem or highly regard is an abomination in God’s eyes’ & what 1 Corinthians 6 8-11 says ‘you who once practiced & supported homosexual behavior have been washed clean by Him…such people will not inherit the Kingdom of God’ so the real church won’t approve of the LGBTQ community.”

They asked “how is that loving then since your God is love?”
I answered “your love equals approval. That’s not the case with God. Jesus loved the tax collectors & prostitutes as we can see in this book more specifically in Matthew, but He didn’t approve their behavior. He brought them out of it that life with His Love. Approval is another matter.”

They asked “what about your church leaders who are showing they’re finally approving of LGBTQ people?”

I answered “I don’t look to them, but I judge them according to this book before I listen as said in 1 John 4:1. they’re false who ultimately seek praise from people not God. I remember a quote from John MacArthur ‘the church has made the most significant spiritual impact on the world it stood firm, unwavering, & bold on the Bible in the face of the enemy.’ Also, I this note here about that ‘gradually the unthinkable becomes tolerable then is accepted then legal then praised becoming a religion of the sword as I heard from Frank Turek with CrossExamined & agree with’”

They asked “so you believe that God will send these people to hell for their LGBTQ lifestyles & those pastors for their approval of them?”

I answered “if this book calls it a sin, & warns us of the consequences, then it doesn’t matter what anyone’s opinions or thoughts are. They can be as sincere about it as they can be & still be on the road to Hell if they don’t repent. Luke 13 comes to mind. I remember a Facebook post about this ‘in the end it will either be God saying to us Thy will be done or us saying to God Thy will be done. Does that answer your question?”

They answered “uh…yeah. So you don’t believe they’re born that way?”
I answered “of course not, just as I wasn’t born a Christian nor a Muslim is born a Muslim. No one is born anything. It’s all nurture & one’s own choice.”

I could tell my answers bothered them, & they stopped talking.

Discussion

12 comments

  1. Larry Koester says:

    Paul points out that forgiveness isn’t a licence to sin. It is also pointed out in scripture that in the last daydms people will be proud of their sin. Then we now have gay pride parades and women seem proud about is not only their right but some kind of moral good

  2. Toni Armstrong says:

    I think you are a good witness

  3. VaajLeng Yang says:
  4. Salas Ray says:

    Prayers for that person

  5. Anna Davies says:

    Great answer! The goalposts have moved from tolerance to acceptance to affirmation. I like the way you used logical reasoning…

  6. Jacob Krahenbill says:

    Wish I could share this! Excellent!

  7. Jeff Benjamin says:

    Jacob Krahenbillyou can.

  8. Patrick Yisrael says:

    You answered with a biblically sound answer. You did well, it is not your fault you irritated them. You planted the seeds.

  9. Bob Bosch says:

    I highly doubt that is how the conversation went.

  10. Gracey Criss says:

    Lusting after someone else is like any other sin. It’s like lying, hatred, selfishness etc.

    I would highly doubt that the church would cast out someone who unrepentantly gossips, why is it different for the homosexual?

  11. Royal Angela says:

    Gods grace is sufficient. I had to depend totally on God for the sins that was hiding behind my noticed sins. Its deeper than what your flesh is allowing. Just as Job friends question his sin and his wife gave up on him .He remain faithful to God. In the New Testament the cross offered us shedded blood for our sins. We have to remain faithful and know that its the grace of God that saves us. We sin when we say we are without sin

  12. Mirzoyeva Naira says:

    Now that you have talked to this person, pray for him/her daily. You planted a seed, leave the rest to God.