The Devilish Side of Sex
Booklet #1 in Win Worley’s Deliverance Series
TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. SEX PERVERSION
2. DEMONS THAT BREAK UP MARRIAGES
3. PREACHERS AND SEX SCANDALS
4. INCUBUS AND SUCCUBUS
5. INORDINATE AFFECTIONS WITH OTHERS
6. SUBLIMINAL ADVERTISING IN WHAT YOU SEE AND READ
7. THE SINGLE MALE
8. THE SINGLE FEMALE
Ex. 20:4 Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image.
Ex. 32:1-25 Aaron maketh a golden calf.
I Kings 11 Solomon’s wives draw him to idolatry.
Prov. 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.
Matt. 5:32 Put away his wife, for cause of fornication.
Rom. 6:16 His servants ye are to whom ye obey.
Rom. 7:8 Wrought in me all manner of concupiscence.
Rom. 13:12 Cast off the works of darkness.
Rom. 14:13 No man put a stumbling block in brother’s way.
I Cor. 1:23 Unto the Greeks foolishness.
I Cor. 5:1 That one should have his father’s wife.
I Cor. 6:9 Be not deceived.
I Cor. 10:5-8 Lust – idolaters – fornication.
I Cor. 10:13 You to be tempted above that ye are able.
I Cor. 15:33-34 Awake to righteousness, and sin not.
II Cor. 10:5 Casting down imaginations, every high thing.
II Cor. 12:21 Uncleanness – fornication – lasciviousness.
Eph. 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of mouth.
Eph. 5:11 No fellowship with unfruitful works of darkness.
Phil. 4:8 Think on these things.
Col. 3:5 Mortify therefore your members.
Col. 3:8 Anger/wrath/malice/blasphemy/ filthy communication.
I Thes. 4:5 Not in the lust of concupiscence.
II Tim. 3:4-6 Traitors/heady/highminded/lovers of pleasures.
Heb. 13:4 And the bed undefiled.
I John 2:10 There is non occasion of stumbling in him.
Jude 18-19 Who should walk after their own ungodly lusts.
1. Fornication is the word which covers all unlawful sexual acts. In the Scriptures – incest, adultery and idolatrous sex orgies are all called fornication (Matt. 5:32; I Cor. 5:1 ” 10:5-8; Ex. 32:1-25).
2. Adultery is voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not their legitimate mate. Effeminate refers to a homosexual man, a catamite (I Cor. 6:9).
3. Abusers of themselves with mankind (I Cor. 6:9) is the Greek word Arsenokoites or Sodomite; one guilty of unnatural offenses, one who practices sodomy. I Kings 11 tells us that Solomon worshiped at the Ashtoreth.
4. Sensual relates to or consists in the gratification of the senses or the indulgence of appetite; to be devoted to or preoccupied with the senses or appetites; voluptuous; deficient in moral, spiritual or intellectual interests. Synonym – carnal; see Jude 18-19.
5. Evil concupiscence is to desire ardently; strong desire especially in the sexual area (Col. 3:5; I Thes. 4:5; Rom. 7:8).
6. Inordinate affection refers to that which is unregulated, disorderly, exceeding reasonable limits; immoderate; excessive (Col. 3:5).
7. Lasciviousness is the promoting or partaking of that which tends to produce lewd emotions; anything which fosters sexual sin and lustfulness. Today it seems both men and women can dress and conduct themselves in a lascivious manner. Christians should not do anything in dress or conduct that would cause others to stumble (II Cor. 12:21; Rom. 14:13; I Cor. 1:23; I John 2:10).
8. Filthy communication is derived from the Greek word meaning useless, putrid, or obscene. Suggestive body or eye movements, obscene jokes, pornographic books, movies, pictures, rock music, profanity and blasphemy all come under this classification (Eph. 4:29; Col. 3:8).
In Unger’s Bible Dictionary under False Gods you can get an education on the gods that Israel worshiped. In this study you will discover that illegal sexual activity was, in fact, worship of that god. Perhaps that is why there is such an increase in sexual perversion. Satan is trying to restore worship of these gods knowing that most people do not know they are preforming an act of worship when they do sexually perverted things.
In Romans 13:12 and in Ephesians 5:11 we are commanded to have nothing to do with the unfruitful works of darkness. Ancient cults and their activities are becoming popular in our land today.
Romans 6:16 says that to whomever we yield ourselves to obey that’s whose slave we become. In II Tim. 3:4-6 we learn that treacherous, inflated with self-conceit, unscrupulous men (lovers of sensual pleasures) acting like they are true Christians worm their way into the homes of silly, weak willed, spiritually dwarfed women and lead them astray. We have observed that the purpose of all this deceit is sexual activity.
Today most people seem unaware of or are indifferent to the condemnation in God’s Word against all sexual perversions. In the first chapter of Romans we can follow the descent of man into depravity. First the position of God is reduced to the position of the creation. At this point, a man’s heart is filled with vain imaginations and he becomes deceived. His worship is centered upon graven images (Ex. 20:4). The images are in descending order. First worshipped is the likenesses of men (we are into body worship today), then his gods become lower creatures like birds, next four-footed beasts, and finally creeping things. For this rebellion, the Lord gives them up to illicit sex between men and women, thus destroying the marriage relationship and undermining the family. The next step down is homosexuality and perversion, again practiced in worship of the “gods” set up by foolish and blinded men. See Unger’s Bible Dictionary, pages 411-418.
Many Christian married couples use Heb. 13:4 as an excuse to practice sodomy. They believe they can have perverted sex just because they are married. They are in deep deception.
Let us consider these translations: Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for fornicators and adulterers God will judge (New American Standard). Let marriage be held in honor – esteemed worthy, precious, (that is,) of great price and especially dear – in all things. And let the marriage bed be (kept undishonored,) undefiled; for God will judge and punish the unchaste (all guilty of sexual vice) and adulterous (Amplified). Marriage must be held in honor by all, and the marriage relations kept sacred. Persons who are sexually vicious and immoral God will punish (Williams).
God has never and will never agree with you that fornication, sodomy or any type of uncleanness, in or out of marriage, is acceptable to Him. According to Pro. 23:7, as a man thinketh in his heart so is he. Because we become what we think about, Paul points out that we should think on things that are honest, pure, lovely, virtuous, and of good report (Phil. 4:8). In II Cor. 10:5, we are told to cast down vain imaginations which would rear up against the teachings of God and we are commanded to bring every thought into captivity to Christ Jesus. I Cor. 15:33-34 tells us not to be deceived or mislead because evil companionships, (communion, associations) corrupt and deprave good manners and morals and character. We should be holy in all conversation as, even as Christ is holy.
God has made a way for us to escape from temptation but most of the time we don’t take it. There is a difference between temptation and sin. Demons usually put thoughts of sins in our head. To have the thought pass through your head is not sin. To obey or continue the thoughts and act on them is sin (I Cor. 10:13).
In the bonds of holy matrimony, sexual intercourse is not an evil thing. Couples find a closeness, joy and blessing impossible to attain by any other means.
If you are unable to stop filthy memories, words or voices coming into your mind; if you are constantly undressing others with your eyes, and lewd and evil thoughts constantly flood your mind; if you are a masturbator, fornicator, homosexual or lesbian; then you are host to evil spirits.
DEMONS THAT BREAK UP MARRIAGES
It is the duty of marriage breaking spirits to work in the husband and wife. One strong demon is lust. In our society men have been programed to lust for and not truly love the wife. When a man uses this tactic on the wife, her ego is wounded. Because lust is seeking only it’s own gratification, the wife will feel used or violated, which leaves her feeling degraded. The person who is the object of lust will often become repulsed at having sexual contact with the spouse.
Lust, instead of love, often causes the wife to use sex as a bargaining device. This happens because the wife knows she is not being loved, just used as a prostitute, so she uses the person who has used her. When a woman uses these tactics on the man, his ego is wounded. As you can see, this is a Satanic game which continues the rejection process until there is only hate left. Woe to the men and women who get caught in this trap and never get out. Woe to the children so educated about love, sex and marriage. Thus the true meaning of the sex act and the satisfaction it should bring can easily be destroyed for the couple (Titus 2:3-5).
Just a question to the older women. Are you qualified to teach younger women how to love their husbands and children (Titus 2:3-5)? By your own life you do teach.
One of the most urgent needs of the American husband is to learn what God means when He says a man should love his wife. He will learn to control his sexual desires, and consider the wife’s needs and condition as well as his own.
Due to the wide spread of pornographic material, many men force their wives into oral, anal and other sexual perversions, often leading the wife into deviate sex.
Fear of homosexuality is great among American men. A large number of men have had minor or major contact with homosexuality as young boys. Young boys often get their hands on pornographic material by accident and follow its instructions.
Here are some common traits in husbands who have had some homosexual contact. When he marries, he will not see the need to provide financially or spiritually for the wife and children. He often hates the wife and children, and feels they hamper him. He does not understand his responsibility for the family, neither does he care. He usually will not hold a steady job. They are all laden with fear which torments them. Oral Sex is a powerful spirit and will not give up easily. They reside in the mouth, lips, tongue, taste buds, throat, sex organs and the mind. There must be sincere repentance followed by determined discipline. We have seen men recover from this spirit’s control.
Many young children are forced into oral sex by some one they trust or are kin to. Even though they hate it, they cannot stop the demon’s demand for it and will often continue to seek it even when no one forces them.
PREACHERS AND SEX SCANDALS
We have all watched and been greatly shaken when preachers and Christian leaders we have respected reach their goals and have a ministry that is successful, fall into sexual sin destroying all they have accomplished as well as many young Christians. The Bible gives us the order in which we should grow: (1) Salvation, (2) Casting out demons, (3) Baptism in Holy Spirit, (4) Safety in accidents and (5) Healing. Many pastors and Christian leaders have never been delivered of evil spirits. Because of their resistance to the demons, the demons just play a waiting game. They may even help the man succeed, knowing their success in causing the man’s fall is sure, they just act like they are gone (Mark 16:16-19). The demons watch as they go around in the man for just the right time, place and person to catch him. They will never strike too soon. Had this man been delivered and understood the attempts of demons to re-enter, he would have had a chance against the fall. We know a pastor who says “If you let the Devil ride, he’s going to drive.” Sex, power, and money are three main destroyers of man. If you let any of these control you, it will destroy you.
INCUBUS AND SUCCUBUS
Those attacking females are called incubus and those concentrating on males are called the succubus. These are vicious sexual spirits which can molest and torment susceptible individuals. Most attacks are at night and the person its awakened by fondling hands, caressing hot lips and tongue, and other forms of lust inducing stimulation. Every kind of abnormal and deviate sexual experience can be generated by these spirits.
These demons cruelly torment their victims to satisfy their filthy cravings. Some people have told us that they get to the point they are afraid to go to sleep at night. Their days are filled with shame and they feel everyone knows what they do. They have no hope of escape. Many consider suicide and a good number carry it out. Some of these demons have been loosed on these helpless people by curses from their ancestors, and some by their own sins.
INORDINATE AFFECTIONS WITH OTHERS
Inordinate – disorderly, unregulated; exceeding reasonable limits, immoderate, excessive. After we accept Christ as Savior, we need to carefully consider our former relationships with people. Any wrong activities, actions, thoughts, desires, and attitudes should be confessed as sin and never be engaged in again. We need to recognize the cleansing and forgiveness provided by Jesus Christ (I John 1:9).
Inordinate affections include unnaturally close friendships involving affections, heterosexual or homosexual contacts, and fellowship in other sinful practices. This will include all blood covenants.
We know that before salvation we knew people in a purely human way (II Cor. 5:16). After salvation, all of our relationships need to be examined to make sure none of them are in violation of God’s Word. Since the fleshly or carnal mind is enmity with God; not subject to, nor can it ever be subject to God (Rom. 8:7), we must be careful what we subject it to. Remember, evil companionships, communion and associations corrupt and deprave good manners, morals and character (I Cor. 15:33-34). If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature; old things are passed away, behold all things are become new (II Cor. 5:17).
After you have prayed this prayer and accepted the cleansing of Jesus, you may find it better to stay away from these friends long enough to become spiritually stable yourself (II Cor. 6:17).
If your former friend will not come to Christ for salvation and cleansing, then part company with them. You can ask God to bring that person across your path when you are stronger spiritually, and when they have been drawn and convicted by the Holy Spirit.
You will need to renounce all pacts, covenants, promises and other binding allegiances to former friends in the world, and break all curses which may have been incurred by such relationships or agreements.
I now follow Rom. 12:1, and present all my members and faculties to God. I desire to be well pleasing to God. Carefully begin to make new friendships only in Jesus Christ which will be based on true love as outlined in I Cor. 13.
Continually renew your emotions and mind in scripture, praise, spiritual songs, and pure and wholesome thoughts (Eph. 5:19, 26; Psalm 34:1; Phil. 4:8). Fix your mind on things outlined in Phil. 4:8. This suggests we may need to use force on our minds. Think about and tell the demons about Jesus’ Love for you, His Last Supper, His Submission in the garden, His Death, His Resurrection, His Ascension and His Priesthood – all for you. It makes the demons recede when you force your mind to think about the love Jesus Christ has for you and to remember that they have no chance for salvation. In I Thes. 5:18 we are told to thank God in everything. If you are busy thanking God for all He does for you, you cannot be depressed. Pray with the understanding and in the Spirit (Jude 20; I Cor. 14:4). Memorizing and singing scripture can be an invaluable aid (I John 2:14).
Thankfully and joyfully fill your days with good hard work (I Thes. 4:11). See Luke 16:10-12 and learn to take responsibility for your small earthly duties so that you can be trusted in much. Serve in the church and fellowship with Christian companions (Heb. 10:25).
Since bad music is often associated with bad relationships, renounce and destroy all rock, country, blue grass, melancholy and sensual music. Especially shun music which brings remembrance of former sinful activities and friends. Have the one working with you call out names of artists and types of music as names of demons.
SUBLIMINAL ADVERTISING IN WHAT YOU SEE AND READ
What would have seemed impossible thirty years ago has come to pass, you can receive a message to your mind and never see the message with your conscious mind or physical eyes. This is a subliminal message. We were given a book about subliminal messages. In one ad, very cleverly concealed in the ice cubes, was a woman in a sexual pose with an animal. Although you probably would not see it with your eyes, unconsciously you would get the message: drink – sex – bestiality.
We must guard good moral values. If we are weak in our convictions, our moral values can be changed subliminally by suggestion in rock music, TV, radio, newspapers, magazines, posters, billboards, etc.
One form of subliminal message is the sub-audio suggestions on rock records saying: Communism is the perfect form of government; hate your parents; you are no good; commit suicide; kill others; take drugs; they taste good; your parents hate you; police are pigs; and the whole world is crooked.
If we as Christians do not to cultivate the Word of God, accept its values and be taught of the Holy Spirit, our spiritual fences will not be up and intact when the enemy attacks. We have adequate protection but it is not automatic.
Hosea 4:6 says we are destroyed for lack of knowledge of the Law of God. Those who do not take time to learn what is righteous in the sight of God will be swept along to destruction which is Satan’s plan for you (Eph. 2:1-2).
THE SINGLE MALE
Because the sex drive is second strongest in the body, it is something with which you will always have to live. Because humans are able to become parents long before they are mature enough to assume the duties and the responsibilities of parenthood, there has to be a wise reason in God’s time table in this. Could it be that God has given young men and young ladies this problem to teach self-control. James 1:2-4 points out that trials bring endurance and steadfastness. Let endurance, steadfastness and patience have full play and do a thorough work, so that you may be fully developed, lacking nothing.
It is the desire of Satan to have you laden down by guilt, curses and sin before you mature enough to form a family. You automatically get demons and curses when you are not chaste: for incest – ten generations; for creating a bastard – ten generations; for being a father to a baby aborted – the curses for shedding innocent blood and murder indirectly, adultery, whore monger and failing to provide for your offspring, just to name a few.
In marriage there are times when abstinence and continence must be practiced. During the menstrual cycle, periods of geographical separation from the wife and during pregnancy, sexual relations are either undesirable or unwise.
The basic need is to bring the sex drive under control. Learn to avoid sexual impurity and the debilitating guilt which follows such involvements. Satan urges a man to involve himself in sexual activity without regard for his physical or mental health, and by this prove his manhood.
He only proves he has the equipment, that it works and he just fell for one of Satan’s big ones. He has just laid curses on himself, his wife, his marriage, all his sons and daughters, and several generations of descendents. He has loosed sexual demons to harass and torment them, and he may have gotten a sexually transmitted disease for himself and his descendents.
Satan uses the sex drive to trap all people, but even more so the Christians. Masturbation is a form of self-indulgence and self-love, strictly a selfish pleasure. It produces shame, doubt, condemnation and failure. Satan’s lie is that it does not involve anyone else, so it is all right.
The more times a man has engaged in sexual activity in the past, whether it was masturbation, heterosexual or homosexual activities, the more difficulties he will have in breaking these practices. Being as persistent to resist the demons, as the demons are persistent against you, will put you in proper submission to God and the Devil will flee. Read James 4:5-8.
The morning erection is caused by the need to urinate; the erection then leaves and the penis goes back to normal. Arousal can be caused by other reasons such as pornography, watching women, tight clothing, etc.; the penis may then achieve a erection. If the man does not masturbate, he will have a wet dream which will relieve the pressure of the sperms.
There is no condemnation for having a wet dream. You have committed no sin because this is a natural function of the body. Don’t let Satan talk to you and get you to masturbate.
When the demon comes, he must be rebuked in Jesus’ Name. Because Satan is a liar, the person so attacked does not have to agree with Satan’s evaluation of himself. It is time now for you to force your mind to think on what you tell it to do.
Now a problem arises. A man knows I Cor. 10:13, and understands all the mechanics of physical sex pressure and even the psychological warfare Satan wages to lead into sexual sin. In spite of all this, he falls, by letting the Devil goad him into masturbating. Before the act, the demon pushed for it; now he begins to attack with guilt thoughts, shame, giving up. After repenting instead of giving up, show your thanks to God for His forgiveness and cleansing. Forgive yourself. Get up and go for success again (I John 1:9). Don’t waste time with vain recriminations over your failure. If you continue, you will succeed. The episode may have opened your mind and body to sex spirits.
Stop praying and breathe slowly and deeply three or four times. Be persistent, and repeat until they leave.
In the future avoid the circumstances, contacts and actions which led up to your failure. Begin new thought patterns at the very onset of temptation. Usually the greatest pressures come when you are alone. Study the Bible and pray, do binding and loosing warfare, get plenty of physical exercise, and work hard at your job.
Find methods which are helpful to you personally and use them to reinforce your good resolutions. As Paul admonished young Timothy, Keep thyself pure, and Flee youthful lusts. (I Tim. 5:22; II Tim. 2:22; I Cor. 9:27).
THE SINGLE FEMALE
Under the guise of female liberty, the American woman has lost a lot. She has been told she has sexual liberty and can, if she so desires, pickup a man and have sex – no strings attached. While this may sound very interesting, even exciting to some, let’s examine the results of such actions.
She is forming soul ties with each man (I Cor. 6:15-16). This means that she is attached in her soul to every man she has had sex with; this tie will interfere with her total relationship with her husband. Each man goes to bed with her and her husband, and interferes with their sex life. Because of attitudes which she has formed about life, men and herself, she will usually not be able to be happy even if she should marry a good man. She may not be able to persistent in hard times.
She may get sexual diseases for herself and even pass them on to her children or they may kill her children. She may become pregnant and bear a child; an act she did not even consider at the time of the sex act. If she has an abortion these curses will be upon her and also the father (Ex. 21:12, Deut. 19:10, Pro. 6:17, Lev. 20:2).
She invites the curse of the bastard upon herself and gives it to ten generations of her descendents (Deut. 23:2). This curse will follow her into a marriage and fall on all of her children. Some of the attributes of this curse are: family members do not get along, they do not feel at home in the church, create more bastards, are cruel and unkind.
She will not escape the psychological and spiritual attacks of Satan through curses and the demons. She suffers shame, feelings of being degraded, maybe becomes truly degraded, emotional illness torments her, feelings of lose and dread follow her. She will feel fragmented and loose the ability to trust herself, men and God. Sexually transmitted diseases may not be curable. After a time, she will either loathe her life or go beyond the point of having any desire to return to God.
It is strange but in my school classes very young children have a knowing that it is wrong for mom or dad to associate in intimate ways with someone not their mate. They know this without ever having anyone tell them. This knowing can be abused but cannot be denied and sooner or later will convict the woman. In later life her loose will becomes more evident to her and brings even more grief or suicide. There is no sadder person than the old woman who has been destroyed through unlawful sexual activity, and has lost the respect and love of her children and husband .
Let’s take a look at the average young lady who has followed the so called new liberty. This may surprise you; she is generally in her early to mid – twenties. This is very young to have ruined your life and maybe your children’s lives. She has usually been married, may have a child, has become envious of others, is unthankful, considers her life boring, over or too much for her, and she would like to live in a fantasy world. The pasture looks brighter out there. She divorces her mate or just leaves. Next step is the job market; there she finds sexual favors will get what she thinks she wants, but again she is cheated. Now she is often alone because the courts will give the children to the husband if she is not a fit parent. She finds that men talk sweet and walk-out fast.
After all this, a few come to their senses and repent in true repentance. They get saved and begin to change their lives, but the demons they have collected will not leave them alone and exert pressure to return to the old life. If she holds out and comes to Jesus Christ for deliverance, she will still have to be diligent in her resistance to immorality if she is to regain her life. If she does not hear of nor get deliverance, the chances are very great she will go back to the old life.
We have seen that those getting deliverance and teaching about how to win over Satan and the demons can persevere and recover almost or all that they have lost. We’ve seen many return to their homes and families and make beautiful Christian wives and mothers. We have seen sexual diseases cured, and mental and physical health restored. This is the reward we get which keeps us filled with desire to see everyone win over Satan.
I urge all young ladies to treasure what God has given. Don’t fall for Satan’s lie and become polluted, filled with demons and laden with guilt. Get yourself delivered from the curses that have been handed to you by your ancestors and enjoy a clean life with God .
There is one young man in the Bible that I feel is smarter even than Solomon. He is in I Chron. 3:9-10. He cried out to God that he be kept from evil so that he would not be hurt by it. The request must have pleased God for it says He granted him his request.
As you can see, there are curses, pain and punishment for all who transgress God’s laws on sex. When you think you have succeeded in hiding it, guess who saw you. When you think you got away scot free, wait a few years and you will see. When you are tempted to think you have hurt no one but yourself, see what happens to your children. If this has been your life or if you are beginning to think that a life of sexual promiscuity would be fun, see now that the price is too great.
Battling The Hosts Of Hell; Conquering The Hosts Of Hell; Demolishing The Hosts Of Hell; Annihilating The Hosts Of Hell, Volumes I and II; Eradicating The Hosts Of Hell; Smashing The Hosts Of Hell; The Alcoholic Syndrome; Grappling with the Host of Hell; Freedom from the Hosts of Hell; and Harassing The Host of Hell, eleven books (and fifty booklets covering particular topics) by Win Worley, Hegewisch Baptist Church, Highland, Indiana